Thursday, June 11, 2009

Deadbeat Dads... A Damn Travesty

I'm convinced that I have an anger management problem, or Tourette's, or something to the like because I get mad very easily. Maybe its the Gemini in me, I just don't know. There's just some things that sends me completely off the Richter scale.

The number one thing that gets me heated is this: I HATE DEADBEAT FATHERS! A child is a blessing from God. That child didn't ask to be brought into the world, but once it's here it is both parent's responsibility to raise it. You hear that, BOTH PARENT'S RESPONSIBILITY! If you stick your dick in all these women, damnit if she gets pregnant step up to the plate and handle your business! My father wasn't always physically around during my younger days because he was battling addiction. But damnit, he made sure me and my brother had whatever we needed. Needed a new pair of shoes, we got them. A new suit, got it. Money for school, he made a way for us to have it. Now he may have had to do some illegal things to get it, but he made sure we had whatever we needed (and wanted).

In today's society, men must think its a badge of honor to have 5 or 6 different baby mothers. No, that shit is nasty! Now if you're taking care of your seeds, both monetarily AND in their lives, I give you a standing ovation. My roommate from college has 3 boys, each by different mothers, but he's in their lives AND provides for them. My line brother has a boy and a girl, by different women, but he's in their lives AND provides for them. Those are class acts. Then we have my brother's father, for instance. He hasn't seen my brother NOT ONCE in almost 12 years. A FUCKING SHAME!

People then wonder why these young girls are out ho'ing around and ending up on Maury's "I want to be pregnant at 13" or "My 14 year's old a wild teen" or "I'm 16, who's my baby's daddy" shows. You can CLEARLY see that they have no father figure showing them how a REAL man is supposed to treat them. It's a shame. A complete tragedy. A complete travesty!

Simply, all I'm saying is, if you lay down with a woman, be FULLY prepared to take care of your responsibilities if you get her pregnant. Better yet, how about using a FUCKING condom! Sure, they may not 100% prevent pregnancy, but I'd take the 1 percent chance she might get pregnant or give me a disease than the 100% chance that comes when you don't use a condom. Oh, in case you wasn't paying attention in biology class, you CAN get a girl pregnant even if you don't ejaculate, cum, bust in her, whatever adjective you want to use. Pre-cum is just as powerful, in fact even MORE powerful and full of sperm than regular ejaculation.

I close this post with this: JUST. BE. SAFE.

Be blessed.

1 comments:

mrallenakaneo said...

I am with you 110% on the deadbeat dad issue Q especially with me being a father myself...i mean there are times when I am like "damn my kids are working my last good nerve" but they are my children, my responsibility, my weakness...so I take care of them as such. I provide as best as I can, i treat their mother with respect and love, more than I ever even knew I was capable of giving because I want 2 show them both, my daughter & my son, that this is what a man is supposed to do. Being a father is an honor and a privledge to me yet some people just take it for granted. Children need a father I knew that coming up, shit I could be playing for the Titans right now had dad been around to teach me about football or for me to just want to watch it cause he likes to watch it because thats how it all starts. I want my kids to look at me like im Superman, like "wow my dad is the strongest toughest dad in the world" but most importantly that "my dad is always there when I need him to be". If you are man enough 2 lay down 2 make it be man enough 2 stand up when its created....and im done, great blog Q

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